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According to a survey by the University of Phoenix, high schoolers spend an average of 3.5 hours on homework each night. Add in time for extracurricular activities, part time jobs, and a social life, and your teen likely has a jam-packed schedule. Excessive stress can lead to sleep deprivation, headaches, feeling anxious, and procrastinating or neglecting responsibilities altogether. Here are some helpful tips to reduce your teen’s stress in the upcoming year...Read More
It can be scary and overwhelming to figure out how to start seeing a therapist and book your first therapy session. Seeing a therapist should be an experience that brings you comfort; it should give you a safe space to disclose your thoughts and emotions. Once you find a therapist of your choice, you may be offered a consultation call to ensure it’s the right fit for you. Here’s an idea of what to expect during your first therapy session.Read More
Thanksgiving break often marks the first time that college students return home since the beginning of the fall semester; this can often be an anxiety-provoking and emotional experience for parents. Often, conflicts may occur when expectations collide and there is minimal communication about plans for the long weekend. Here are some tips to help make the Thanksgiving break a stress-free and enjoyable experience for everyone...Read More
The holidays are just around the corner! They’re the time for great food, good times with family, celebration, and perhaps some stress as well. One thing that many people struggle with during this time of year is eating mindfully on Thanksgiving. With the abundance of delicious food at your family gather, it can be easy to overindulge and overeat. Here are some tips to help you keep yourself in check and be more mindful during this year's holiday meal...Read More
As the clock rolls back and as it gets darker earlier, many people begin to feel “down” and gloomy. It’s so easy to give in to the coldness and darkness of winter. But don’t lose hope! There are ways to fight your depressive symptoms in the wintertime. Whether you have seasonal affective disorder, or you just feel blue during the winter months, you should take a look at these simple suggestions...Read More
Today, teens are constantly on their phones. They text friends, post to Snapchat, like each other’s Instagram posts, and scroll through their Facebook feeds. It’s like their phones are attached to them—they simply cannot disconnect! It’s hard for parents to keep up with their app profiles and online activity when there are so many apps that they use to connect to their peers and friends. Parents want to make sure their teens are safe online, but it’s difficult to stay updated with the latest online trends. Here are some tips to help you monitor your teen’s digital life.Read More
As a parent of a teenager, it can be extremely difficult to differentiate between typical teen behavior and atypical, problematic behavior. Teenage behavior can be challenging to deal with, but when does it become extreme? You may not know what is just a phase and what you should really be concerned about. Don’t panic—instead, use these simple techniques to figure it out...Read More
October is National Bullying Awareness Month. According to Merriam-Webster, bullying is defined as abuse or mistreatment of someone vulnerable by someone stronger and more powerful. Unfortunately, bullying occurs far too often—according to the National Center for Educational Statistics, 20.8% of students reported being bullied, but 64% of children are bullied and do not report it. Bullying can make a child or teen feel isolated, shamed, anxious, or depressed. If you are worried that your child is struggling against bullies, read more about some simple tips for you to help...Read More
When life gets very busy, you may feel like you can't take time to de-stress—there’s so much to do! However, ignoring your self-care routine can make you feel run down and burnt out. Instead, you should make time for simple strategies to improve your overall well-being, even if it just for a few minutes each day. Here are some quick and easy ways to practice self-care for when you are on-the-go...Read More
It is sometimes difficult to distinguish normal adolescent mood shifts, reactions or rebellion from verifiable symptoms of depression, as they often mimic each other.
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Sending your child to preschool is an exciting experience. Many parents feel overwhelmed about which school to choose, especially when there are so many options nearby. Here are a few tips to help you navigate the preschool search and find a school that suits your family...Read More
Mindfulness is living in the moment and focusing on your current experience. Although it seems like a trend or buzzword, mindfulness is evidence-based and has been studied to reduce negative physical and mental symptoms as well as improve overall well-being. Here are some tips and tools for integrating mindfulness into your routine....Read More
It’s September and everyone is excited for a great school year! You might want the transition to go smoothly, however there might be some obstacles on the road. Here are some tips to help your teen get started on the right foot this year....Read More
As summer comes to an end, many families are gearing up for a brand new school year. This transition often comes with a wide variety of feelings—excitement, anxiety, and anticipation are just a few. Here are a few tips to help the family stay calm and grounded as the new school year starts....Read More
What is color psychology? It is a powerful tool often used in marketing and branding. Essentially, it is the idea that different colors make you feel different ways. For example, yellow might make you feel energized and blue might help calm you down. In the same way that companies carefully decide what color their logos should be, you can choose and change the colors in your house with these simple tips.
The colors that are most commonly associated with calmness and relaxation are green, blue, and purple. However, their effects are slightly different. In addition to its calming effect, green promotes feelings of balance, security, and compassion. Blue boosts productivity, as well as feelings of harmony and clarity. Whereas purple is associated with creativity, logic, and power. Any of these 3 colors can help you feel more at ease.
That does not mean that you should suddenly paint every wall in your house purple. Instead, you can add pops of calming colors into your home. Some easy ways to do this are through accent pillows, posters, artwork, and other small decorations. That way, you don’t have to clear out a room and paint your walls or buy entirely new furniture to introduce a more peaceful color palette.
Here are some ideas for each room in your house: In the living room, you could find blue throw pillows for the couch, or a light green area rug. In the dining room or kitchen, you could look into getting colored dishes or a tranquil-colored tablecloth. The bathroom could get a new lilac shower curtain. You could even buy baby-blue bedding for your bedroom, so you go to sleep to soothing colors. Even a little more color in a space can make a difference.
As a do-it-yourself project, you could have your kids paint on canvases using only calming-color acrylics. Then, you can hang them on practically any wall to showcase their work. It’s a great way to get them involved and give them an activity to do on a summer day!
Incorporating color into your house can be easily done, so that you can feel more relaxed all year round. There are so many different shades and hues of green, blue, and purple—you can’t go wrong! Use color psychology to swap out stress-inducing colors for more peaceful ones and feel better today!
During summer, it is easy to fall into a snacking slump. The weather is hot and you could use a frozen treat like ice cream to cool you off. Instead of snacking on chips, chocolate, or cheese in between meals, consider trying some healthy and delicious snacking options. Healthy snacking has many benefits—it can improve your concentration, increase your energy levels, and help with appetite control. Plus, a sweet treat can make anyone feel better. Try munching on these snacks to boost your mood and your energy for the rest of this summer!
Summer is the ideal season for watermelon. Watermelon is great because it has little to no fat or sodium, but it tastes so sweet! It also is nutritious; it contains vitamin A, vitamin C and lycopene (an antioxidant). You can eat it by the slice or turn it into a popsicle by cutting smaller pieces and putting them on popsicle sticks (see http://www.watermelon.org/Recipes/Watermelon-Slice-Popsicles). No matter what way you eat it, be sure to get your watermelon while it’s still ripe!
2. Fresh Fruit Bruschetta
Bruschetta typically consists of tomatoes, onions, and basil finely chopped on toasted bread. Now, you can turn an Italian classic into a summer snack by dicing up your favorite fruits instead! One website, http://www.thecookierookie.com/fruit-bruschetta/, recommends strawberries and peaches, but you can still use tomatoes too. Enjoy this delicious recipe!
3. Homemade Microwave Popcorn
Popcorn is so tasty, but it is not always that healthy when you buy it from the supermarket. Instead of wondering if there’s too much butter, why not make your own? That way, you can control exactly what’s going into your popcorn and how healthy you can make it! With some popcorn kernels, a brown paper bag, and some seasonings, you can follow the steps on http://blog.feelgreatin8.com/easy-homemade-microwave-popcorn/ to make your own healthy popcorn.
4. Strawberry Frozen Yogurt
Instead of eating ice cream, try making your own frozen yogurt. It’s a great healthy alternative to cool you down. According to http://blog.feelgreatin8.com/homemade-strawberry-frozen-yogurt/, all you need are strawberries, honey, greek yogurt, and lime juice. Just put everything in the blender until it’s smooth, put it in the freezer until it is the right consistency, and indulge in this guilt-free, low calorie desert!
Why waste the end of the summer away, snacking on fatty foods? With these recipes, you can cool off with some yummy and healthy snacks that are perfect for the whole family. They’ll help you feel more energized and motivated to get outside and have fun!
After a long and exhausting day, do you find that you still have trouble falling asleep? If you’re so tired, you would think that you could be fast asleep within fifteen minutes. As you lay in bed, you might replay conversations from the day or go over your to-do list for tomorrow. Maybe you even worry about the rest of your week and what needs to get done. You might try watching some TV for a few minutes or start scrolling through your Facebook newsfeed, but that doesn’t help distract you either. It’s possible that anxiety is keeping you up at night. Here are some tips to help you fall asleep faster.
Visualization: If you feel anxious, you should consider creating a visual for your thoughts. Imagine that you are placing all of your thoughts into a box. Take all of those thoughts and worries from the day, and push them down into the box. Then close it and tape it shut. Imagine placing the box on the shelf. Now, your thoughts are contained, away from the forefront of your mind; they can always be re-opened tomorrow.
Body scan: If you’re not a visual person, you can try this physical exercise. You can relax your muscles, from your toes to your head. Start by curling up your toes tightly for a few seconds, and then release them. Slowly move up your body, tightening and releasing your muscles section by section (ankles, legs, torso etc). Keep going until you get to the muscles in your head (like your eyebrows). This is a very helpful exercise to relax your body, so that you can settle into sleep for the night.
Deep breathing: Practicing your breathing is a good short-term distraction to slow down your thoughts. Count four slow, deep breaths, in through your nose and out through your mouth. As you count the number of breaths you take, you are shifting focus away from your anxieties. You can even count how many seconds you breathe in and out for, if you need an additional distraction. It can be a temporary reprieve to rest your brain.
Whether you struggle with anxiety or just need to relax, you can use these tips to decompress at night. Practicing these exercises can ease your mind and body for a quality night’s sleep.
Life always pulls and pushes us in many directions. Between work, school, kids, friends, family, obligations to the community, etc, it’s hard to find the time to slow down in both body and mind. Research has shown that the fast pace of today’s society can make us overwhelmed, exhausted, lacking creativity, and like we have little left to give.
The concept of a “brief vacation” is a Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) skill. The idea is to stop actively managing your life for a brief amount of time (perhaps 15 minutes to two hours?). Instead, you retreat into yourself or allow yourself to be taken care of during this small break.
Brief Vacation means slowing things down—allowing time for exploring, thinking, learning, or just being present in the moment. Maybe spend time outside with family or read a magazine on the porch. The benefits of taking a full day off or even getting an hour alone can make you feel recharged and get clearer in mind and relaxed in your body.
Here’s a challenge for you: come up with a list of five things that you would spend your time doing if you gave yourself a “brief vacation.” Think about things that you enjoy doing, that relax you, or that you used to do and really want to try again. You could write them on a post-it note or make a list in the notes app on your phone. Keep this list with you so that when you hit the point when you say, “I just need a break,” you have ideas handy. Don’t forget about your list, and maintain some “brief vacation” time in your routine. Even planning out a 30-minute break on a daily basis can be more beneficial than you’d think. Having consistency with this technique will help to support your clarity of mind and balance in your life.
When your life is busy and there are too many things to do in one day, it can be difficult to find time for improving your mindfulness and your health. In this time of technology, there is a new way to supplement the support of your therapist or doctor: apps! Consider downloading these apps to help you achieve your health goals.Read More
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